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Marriage License

So apparently for a couple to be legally married by the lovely state of New York, you need a wedding license.  Cheryl and I had that task this past Friday morning.  We woke up extra early to beat the lines and headed over to the Queens Marriage Bureau located in Kew Gardens.

one lucky bride arrived in a wedding dress.... could have been Cheryl.

happy couples...notice the cupid and hearts decals on the glass. Gives it the romantic edge.

Luckily the line wasn’t too long, I’d say about 7-8 couples before us.  It was very helpful that we had already filled out the online application.   So after an hour and a $35 credit card charge later, we obtained our marriage license!    The funny thing, or well the thing I found most interesting, is that for just a mere $10 more we could have had a ceremony and been officially married right there.

That’s right folks, it’s $45 to get married.  I don’t think you understand… so let’s break this down some more.

Average wedding in the United States – $20,000* ($45 is  0.002%)

Average NYC wedding – $35,000* ($45 is 0.0012%)

*According to www.costofwedding.com

So the true cost of a NYC wedding is $45, but yet why do we spend over 100,000% more ?   I don’t understand it either, it boggles my mind.   One of the many mysteries of the world… like UFO’s, the Loch Ness monster or who shot JFK?

None the less the story ends like this…

1. we got the license

2. we are still having a wedding

3.  i’m happy … (no sarcasm)

Jewelry

The wedding dress I made is not particularly ornate or embellished because of the limits of my sewing skills.  So I decided the perfect way to add some vintage glam to my look would be to wear a statement necklace.  I figure its not giving away too much to post the finished result here on the blog.

vintage brooch wedding necklace

This is the closest thing i have to a "before" picture. I've been getting pretty lazy about taking process pics. I bought the fresh water pearls from one of the bead shops around my office in NYC

The necklace is made out of freshwater pearls, clear crystal beads, and sterling silver findings.  The vintage brooches are purchased off of ebay.  It was mostly inspired by this Christos ad campaign (image below).  I made some changes from the original design, as you can see, but it was definitely strongly influenced by this necklace.

from the Christos ad campaign

I was also very inspired by the designs of Elva Fields, who’s jewelry I only wish I could afford.

Some examples of the inspiring past designs of Elva Fields

So yeah, that’s the final result and I’m very happy with it.  Now I just have to figure out what type of earrings will go with it.


Our Engagement Shoot

Thanks for being patient, I finally got around to compiling our favorite shots from the engagement shoot.  Connie did an amazing job, and I can’t wait to see what she’s able to do when she shoots our wedding!

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<

Our Engagmenet Shoot by Connie Wang - >> joeandcheryl.com <<