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No major progress reports or fun step-by-step crafts to post about today. Just sharing some experiences as we continue on our engagement journey.
Well, most of you know, but Joe and I have been officially attending the same church for over a month now! It was a difficult choice, but we made the decision to attend LFCC and it has been such a blessing to be able to sit together every Sunday and worship and hear the same message. Its so exciting to realize that we are already growing towards marriage in our increased commitment to each other and through all of the challenges we have faced, conquered, and learned from throughout the engagement.
In other updates, we have a cake tasting set up in April which I will blog about once it happens. I feel pretty good about the baker we found, but I don’t want to say too much before we are sure! My mom and my sister will be visited for this and it will be fun to involve them in the planning. More than anything, I can’t wait to eat yummy cake! =)
As for the wedding dress, it has definitely been a huge challenge. I have totally messed up my first attempt, but not much fabric was wasted and I think I learned what I need to in order to start again and succeed. Since Joe is going to be MIA with midterms for the next 3+ weeks, I’ll have full weekend days to really get something substantial done. As much as I hate not seeing Joe, I would never get anything done if it wasn’t for his crazy school schedule.
And finally, let me get your opinions once again. What do you think, does a first dance song have to be romantic or about love? Joe and I are really into this song which has a perfect beat for the type of dance we want to do, but its more about the difficulties of growing up rather than any sort of romance. But it is NOT about breaking up or anything opposite of marriage so its not horrible. Even if its not about love, we do think its very “us.” What do you think?
of things to come:

Sorry, no pictures because I don’t want to give Joe too many clues about what my dress will look like, but I have an update about the progress of my dress. onday, on my wonderful day off from work, I spent about half of the day completing the pattern draping for my dress! Now that I have a pattern, I know exactly how much yardage to buy. So yesterday I ran to Mood during lunch to buy my fabric. I’m really happy with what I brought home!
I made a few changes to my original plan, but nothing major. Things always look different when you see them in person compared to when its in your head. I know a lot of you won’t know these terms, but I have no other way to explain…Instead of georgette, I bought chiffon because I decided all the georgette they had in stock was too gausey and casual. I wanted something that looked more clean and elegant. Plus I think chiffon will be easier to sew. So I bought seven yards of silk chiffon that has this beautiful luster to it. I also bought a yard of heavy silk satin as a combo fabric and 3 yards of silk habutai for lining in the skirt. The final total, including the cost of the dress form I bought a few months ago, is under budget!! So I have some wiggle room incase I totally screw this up.
Oh one other change in plans (not that most of you knew my original plan to begin with), I had the hardest time finding the exact shade of white that I wanted. I wanted a pale ivory that was only slightly more ivory than a pure white, but instead I ended up getting more of a true ivory that leans closer to a cream color. No biggie though, I still like this color and it works with the vintage theme. But who knew matching white would be so difficult. It makes me nervous about the idea of buying shoes…which reminds me, my leftover dress budget will probably partially go to shoes. I’m still trying to decide if I want white, silver or grey for the shoes. Definitely open toe or peep toe though.
Well hopefully I can start sewing everything soon. I am so super excited and eager to get started!!

For all you joe and “cheryl” fans out there, no fear, Joe is still alive ! I have just been busy with a lot of things. I’ve been so busy that my source of finding out what Cheryl is doing for our wedding is from this site. Those bird toppers were a surprise for me too, I didn’t even know we were having cake toppers.
But to all of you pondering to yourself, if Cheryl is doing all this stuff, what is joe doing? Well let me tell you ! I too, am working on a secret DIY wedding project. The only difference is that, I don’t have pictures or progress updates on it like Cheryl, but you all will see it on the wedding day. So be patient ! It is going to be legen…. (wait for it) … dary !
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With my crazy work hours preparing for Fashion Week this past month, I havent been able to set aside enough time to work on my dress at all. So I decided to start a new project that I could easily do in small doses here and there before I go to bed at night. I’ve started my cake topper!!
Does this seem familiar to any of you? Last year my friend Mary asked me to make her cake topper. She was completely in love with those felt birdies that are so popular right now, and asked me to attempt to make a felt lovebird cake topper for her. I had worked on various felt sewing projects before, although nothing as ambitious as what Mary wanted. I always love a creative challenge and in the end, I was very happy with the results! They were stuffed birds made of felt fabric, blanket stitched together. I loved them so much that I even used Mary’s pattern to make a gift bird ornament for each of my bridesmaids.
So I suppose this project grew from Mary’s. The idea of lovebirds for a cake topper was something that I always had in mind for myself. Sure its super trendy right now, but if you look back at my artwork from when I was young, I had a bit of an obsession with birds and flight even then. So birds have always had meaning for me. I think if I had never made Mary’s topper, mine would have looked a lot like hers. But since I’m always so preoccupied with being different and trying new things, I decided to explore a new medium that I have always wanted to try. Needle felting!! I suppose this technique is still some form of felted wool, but it involves no sewing and is a little bit more of a tedious process. Lets take a look at my very first needle felting attempt!
 
Above you can see two of the three major supplies that you need for needle felting – wool roving (which is basically loose strands of natural and dyed wool) and these special barbed needles (felting needles). The third important supply is this thing called needle felting foam. Its just a styrofoam block that is used as a work surface. It gives you something to stab into without breaking your needles. You’ll see it in some of the other images posted below.
 basic bird shape
Next I balled up some roving using the color that I wanted to use for the base, then continually stabbed it with the needle while shaping it. I continued to do this until it was finally able to hold its form. Think of this kind of like a dread lock, its just a solid tangle of hair. The more you stab it the harder it gets. But you want to be careful not to let it get too hard right away because it will become difficult to add details to it later. Above you can see the basic bird shape that was formed – at this point its still pretty squishy. Tip: the more needles you bundle together and use at once, the faster the process goes. Use fewer for the small details. Another tip: I read that for larger animals, you can use a ball of loosely wound yarn, or synthetic batting as a filler so that you don’t waste as much of your expensive wool roving.
 boy birdy with added details
 girl birdy with added details
Once the basic shape is formed, I added my color details and the beak. For this you just lay shorter strands of wool on top and “needle” it in. The coloration is inspired by sparrows, but I chose to make the girl a little lighter than a real female sparrow so that it would look slightly more bridal.
 creating the wings
 the wings firmly attached
Next I created the wings and the tail by folding some wool strands in half and needling them on the foam surface until they were able to hold their shape. Then I simply laid them on top of the bird form and stabbed through them into the body to attach it.

After I attached the wings and tail, I needled in additional details to bring them to life. I also added black metal studs for the eyes. At this point the felted forms were becoming very solid, and it was getting harder and harder to stab in any more detail.
 
Now that the bodies are done, its time to add feet! I would have loved to put feet onto Mary’s birds, but I could not figure out how to insert them securly into the stuffed fabric. These on the other hand are a solid mass of wool, so i just stabbed in three strands of floral wire into the same insertion point, but in opposing directions (to create stability). Then I twisted them into the shape of bird feet and wrapped it with thick brown string. Once they were wrapped, I coated the bottoms of the feet with clear fabric paint to make sure the string was secure.

And here (above) we have the completed love birds!! But that’s only 50% of the final cake topper I have in my head. I plan to surround the birds with sort of a “field” of buttons and hand made fabric flowers – kind of like the picture below. I’ll definitely write another post once I finish it =)

And hopefully I’ll get to work on my dress soon too. I’ll have ALL DAY on presidents day! Exciting!
EDIT: Someone asked me if I was going to lay the buttons directly onto the cake. Of course not!! This is just showing what the birds look like surrounded by buttons. I plan to have a base that the birds will stand on, and the buttons will be attached with floral wire and sheer fabric petals. Think of a jcrew hairpiece or something.
Talida sent me this link today. Its a really creative proposal by some comic book artist. It makes me think I should put my drawing skills to use for Joe. =)
http://www.utterlyengaged.com/category/issues/issue-007/page/9/
 I was REALLY bored at work today...
How embarrassing, my boss (NM – you should know who she is) caught me looking at wedding dresses at work today. But luckily it gave me the opportunity to tell her that I plan to make my own wedding dress. I was really afraid to tell her that I did not want her to make it for me since I didn’t want to insult her designer ego, but she was really cool with it and thought that it was awesome that I’d do something like that!! She even said she was relieved because it would be less work for her, and told me I can help myself to the company’s poly georgette for draping the pattern. What a relief!
btw, I started draping the bodice last night!! So now i have most of the pattern for the top half complete. Maybe later I’ll post some really vague pics. Next to drape or pattern out – skirt, skirt lining, and built in bra….
Every time I plan to start working on my dress, something always comes up. It also doesn’t help that I have to work weekends all month until fashion week. But HOPEFULLY I’ll be able to at least start it this coming Friday while Joe is at a basketball game. Seriously, I am so ready to start! And here’s proof!
Look what arrived in the mail before the holidays. My brand new professional dressform! (decorated with flower brooches from Anthropologie and Jcrew). I had enough room in the dress budget to splurge on this discounted Ebay item.

I also purchased some muslin for draping the pattern, along with various other trimmings that will all eventually become a part of the dress’s inner workings – I plan to make some sort of built in bra/bodice thingy.

Now I just have to start…I hope I can find the time soon.
So as I mentioned in my last post, I’m going to start looking for a florist!! I don’t know the first thing about finding one, but asking around for recommendations from my married friends seems like a good place to start, and my friend Mary was kind enough to refer me to hers. No decisions have been made yet, but I really loved Mary’s flowers in her recent October wedding. So we’ll see!
I decided to put together a floral inspiration board to help direct whoever my florist ends up being. I really want to create a loose, slightly wild and natural, yet vintage feeling to fit into the bohemian look of the wedding. Also, I read that dahlias will be in season for our wedding, and will be much less expensive than my favorite flower – the peony. So since they are a big pouffy flower that can create a similar look at a much lower cost, I’m very interested in incorporating them into the floral arrangements. I also love ranunculus, but I heard they can be pricey too. Hmmm…perhaps I’ll use small chrysanthemums? I think they are more affordable too.
I have to admit, I’m slightly nervous about the bouquets and boutonnieres. Its one aspect of the wedding where I can’t do it myself and I’ll have to relinquish some control. And at my low budget, I’m really scared my florist will sneak in something tasteless like baby’s breath or carnations. But at least if I find someone who’s work I’ve liked at past weddings, that should be less of a fear. Anyway, you can take a look at my inspiration board below.
 Unfortunately, I can't remember the sources of these images. Hopefully I don't get in trouble for posting this!!
Happy new year everyone!! Its now 2010, the year of our wedding. New years day was also our two year anniversary. Its definitely an exciting mile stone.
I haven’t written any updates lately because I guess we’ve been on an unofficial break from wedding planning for the holidays. We had a great time focusing on our families while taking time off school and work. But there are a bunch of things we can get started on now that the holidays are over. I’m hoping to start on the wedding dress next weekend while Joe travels out of town for another friend’s bachelor party. Also, our caterer should be available now that her holiday events are over, to arrange a tasting for our revised wedding menu. I think I’ll also be ready to start researching florists soon. Maybe even look into finding a bakery for the wedding cake…People keep telling us that we are so ahead on our planning, but I keep feeling like there are a million other things to do. Anyway, I will continue to keep you all updated on all the progress. Lots more to come in 2010!
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